The illusion that we are mere “victims” of destiny or from what happens to us is fainting. We are not powerless victims at all, we are Creators. The only ones to blame for our “frustrations” and consequents manifestations. Because for all this “time” we have been doing it wrong, unconsciously, blindly, half powerless indeed!
How does Creation work?
It is not that what we think becomes reality. Wishful thinking is nothing but a self-hypnosis, trying to convince oneself of something we “want” to believe but in fact don’t, self-programing imposed by rational standards. When we “want” something so badly and give it all to the “law of attraction”; we visualize, we practice affirmations, we obsess about an expected outcome. Let’s just take a second to analyze all the details of what I just said and the way I particularly phrased it: … want…badly… obsess… expect… doesn’t sound positive at all does it?
But that is not all that it’s wrong with the process. All these are mental directives which serve an emotional cause, for example fear, or lack off something, or so we “think”. Instead of focusing on the root cause of the emotion, we quickly cover it up and compensate it with external distractions. Sounds familiar? – “Valentine’s around the corner and I still have no boyfriend! Oh well, thank god for wine and chocolates. I will just stuff myself on chocolate bom boms till I get diabetes!” Does it solve anything? No, just creates more problems, like a snow ball effect. This is how unconscious creation happens, and what we are doing now, and have been for a long time unfortunately.
Creation responds to what we feel! That is no surprise. We fear, so we create fear. We lack something, so we create more lack (need). We take the time to understand why we fear or need, and we finally break the cycle. We become a Conscious Co-Creator.
A sick, dying plant doesn’t blossom nor gives good fruits. First, we heal, we take the time to know ourselves. We analyze regarding what we have been projecting what is “wrong” (unbalanced) and needs our most loving attention.
Nowadays, stopping or “taking the time to” is not an option. The “system” says: “You stop, you die”, and we fearful obey. Have we forgotten we are part of the system, as in the system doesn’t work without us, not the rulers? It is we, the people, who truly give it life, our lives more specifically, and power. It is not the system that shapes us, like it is doing now because we are allowing it, it is us who shape the system. We who have the numbers, the majority, in practice we are the ones who actually rule (determine and make any outcome possible). We are the Creators!
So, we take the time to heal, if we choose to. We choose! We build a better system, healthier and wiser.
We enslave ourselves to pay the bills. Fact that all would say to ourselves to justify the madness and guarantee all the commodities and material toys we have come so accustomed to, but not necessarily, or not at all most of the times, of what we (truly) need and most definitely not the healthiest. What is more important, a cheap McDonalds burger and the latest smartphone, or an organic piece of fruit and a good book? What do we give to our children?
We work for a better health care and make ourselves sicker by the day, only to eventually give it all we sacrificed for to the pharmaceutical, doctors and nursing rooms. Was it worth it? Is that what we as creators would have pride of and love to create? Is that the example of life we want to pass to our children? Is that the world we want to make for them?
As a collective, a society, we must really stop and reevaluate our priorities. We are not just killing ourselves anymore, we are killing Earth, all animals, plants, all life forms and guaranteeing the same for the next generation, if there will be any. Not if we continue down this road. Ignorance and stubbornness are costing lives every second. It is not just in the other countries, or the neighbor, it is sliding silently on every doorstep. It is in what we eat, drink, and breath. This is the result of an unconscious creation. Lethal to say the least!
We have a choice. I choose Life. I choose my healing. I choose my conscious Creation!
A Conscious Creation transcends duality or polarity. It is not about being right or being in complete control of ourselves and everything. A conscious creation is about being the bigger picture, the balance of all “things”, feeling both sides and belonging to none at the same time. It is being Neutral, the third state of existence!
For whoever has a Heart, and is not afraid to use it, understands that there is “pleasure in pain” as there is “pain in pleasure”. Life is a paradox, we are paradoxes by nature. That is what makes us so special, and unpredictable. We can do great things and terrible things, we can create as we can destroy, we can love but also hurt. It is how it is. We accept it, we accept our nature, and try our best every day.
We also know there is a time to love but that there is a lesson in hurt. Wise is the one who understands when it is time to let go and destroy what it has created, only to create again a better version. So is cycle of life and evolution! We trust the flow of life. We accept each moment for healing, always going a little deeper. We don’t fight back, we use it for our advantage, whatever life throws at us. We keep our focus in our inner growth!
There is also benefit in “numbers”. I don’t create alone. As we live in a collective we are all co-creators, and when in synch we can do amazing things! We need each of you reading this. You need you!
Nothing truly ever dies, just transforms. We manifest to experiment, we make mistakes to learn better. But this is not about learning a better way, this is just perpetuating “someone” else’s mistakes and justify, over and over again, that there is no other way. We Know there is, deep in our Hearts, we know this is wrong, because it feels wrong. This is about waking up from a long deep sleep and restore the true balance of things.
This is my true love’s kiss to each of you. Let’s make the happily ever after together!
eli de Lemos