Are you a control freak? Then this article is for you. In reality we all are, we all believe we can control reality, our lives, our future, and some even the world. As in most, there is a bit of truth behind it.

 

Life doesn’t just happens, it progresses! We create the guidelines and then it flows naturally, in its own pace. Our lives are not just ours. Life happens at all levels, at the same “time”, it is multidimensional, same as everything else. Our lives also belong to our Higher Souls, the Collective Consciousness and universally to the Source. How little do we know or remember from the higher realms. How can we control, from the lowest perceptional level what we still cannot completely feel and understand?

 

We can only “control” what we can perceive, and nothing more. Everything else falls outside our range, like the will of others, our soul’s agreements and every manifestations purpose. We can’t really control others or be controlled unless we permit it, consciously or not! We can’t lose our control, just give it away.

 

Much like the Egg or the chicken riddle, does energy “controls” us or do we “control” the energy? The answer always lies within the source. And the Source always expands from a singularity. Our source is energy. Energy is what we are by the core, and what allows us to exist, explore and create.

 

What can we really control? Individually, it is still extremely hard to control our own subconscious, emotions and thoughts. We can control what we do, how we react and act consciously, as the rest are feedbacks and guidelines. Thoughts and emotions are not our property or identity, only mirror reflections of our inner frequencies, and our allies on the mission. Basically, we can and must control our inner frequency and how we co-create reality and everyone’s world. We are creators, yes, and responsible for whatever frequency we attract and project. We are responsible for how we affect the world and how the world affects us.

 

More concerning then the illusion of controlling everything and everyone around us, is how easily we tend to give it away. When it comes to relationships and energy exchanges, we feel as if trusting another is synonymous of handing over our control. We give it all for love, we allow others to define us, and eventually the price is paid. We lose ourselves, the only thing we could control. Trusting the universe or anyone is not letting go of our path and mission.  Trusting means to let go of what we cannot control and enjoy the flow of Life and the lessons learned.

 

The need to control is our strongest illusion. Although we may feel like the king of the world at the time, it only reflects our insecurities and fears. We only try to control what we do not understand and mostly fear. By doing so, we separate ourselves from the rest of the world, and others, we individualize, and isolate ourselves, by disconnecting with Source. The true essence of the universe lies in a universal balance, in an eternal cooperation between all things, their purposes of existence and functionalities and how each piece complements the Whole. We are all One.

 

The universe does not control, nor allows to be controlled, it cooperates among equals!

 

Eli de Lemos

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